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A personal user guide shows how you communicate, collaborate, and deal with stress, feedback, and change.

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Personal user guide

See how personality shapes communication and collaboration within your family

Compare personality profiles within your family to see where you naturally align and where extra coordination helps.

2 profilesyou compare across the same five personality dimensions
5 dimensionsshow you overlap, distance and discussion points for each dimension
Personal User GuidePersonal user guide
Ryan Baker + Sophie MartinPersonal user guide · Live comparison
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OppositesSimilar
ConventionalProgressive
FlexibleFocused
QuietDominant
CompetitiveCompassionate
UndisturbableSensitive

Highlights & comments

Save what truly matters within your family

Capture exactly which passages, agreements and points of attention matter within your family, with private highlights and notes in context.

Privateonly you can see your highlights and comments.
In contextyour highlights and comments stay attached to the exact passage they refer to.
Personal User GuideHighlights & comments
Personal guide for Jack DavisCollaboration and communication

Jack works best with clear context and room to think before responding.

So make concrete agreements about ownership, planning and the desired outcome.

Follow up on this in our next one-on-one.

Transformations

Paid feature

Make difficult messages land better within your family

Adapt a difficult message within your family to one person's or the whole group's personality, so it lands better.

1 creditper personal transformation.
3 creditsper team transformation.
Personal User GuideTransformations
Make a message less intense for EmmaEmma is emotional.

Prompt

You keep missing agreements and it is frustrating.
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CancelTransform (1 credit)
Original

You keep missing agreements and it is frustrating.

Transformed

Can we align clear agreements so we both know what is expected and when?

You have 4 transformations leftHistory
Input, output and history in one flow

Team guide

Paid feature

See where personalities clash or reinforce each other within your family

Bring personalities, differences and points of attention together within your family, so you can immediately see where alignment is needed.

5 dimensionsshow you each member’s position and your team’s spread.
2 perspectivesgive you the team spread and individual positions in one view.
Personal User GuideTeam guide
Team guide of Demo TeamDemo Team
DistinctAligned
ConventionalProgressive
FlexibleFocused
QuietDominant
CompetitiveCompassionate
UndisturbableSensitive

4 members

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PDF export

Paid feature

Use a polished PDF wherever you need your guide within your family

Export the guides and Gap views that matter within your family as clear PDFs that are easy to print for preparation, conversations or sharing afterwards.

3 document typesexport personal guides, team guides and Gap views in the same clear layout.
1 clicktakes you from the live guide to a shareable, print-ready PDF.
Personal User GuidePDF export
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Personal user guideGuide for Jack Davis
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A practical overview of communication, collaboration and behaviour under pressure.

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Gap view

Paid feature

Turn differences into practical conversations within your family

Compare two people within your family from a neutral perspective and turn similarities and differences into practical agreements.

2 peopleyou compare without making either person’s perspective the default.
5 dimensionsshow you distance, overlap and practical coaching questions.
Personal User GuideGap view
Gap view: Ryan and SophieSee where two team members align, complement each other, or may misunderstand one another — without making either person's perspective the default.
Demo Team
First team member
Ryan Baker
Second team member
Sophie Martin
OppositesSimilar
Ryan and Sophie are clearly different. That does not have to be a problem: their styles can be complementary. Your task is to surface where their assumptions diverge and turn those insights into practical working agreements.
Ryan is undisturbable, Sophie is sensitive
UndisturbableSensitive
Questions you could ask:

How do you recognize the difference between Ryan's stress response and Sophie's?

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Family life becomes a lot less tense and a lot more connected when you understand how your loved ones operate. With Personal User Guide, you can read someone’s personality guide as if it were their manual. You discover how they prefer to communicate, what they need to feel supported, what gives them energy, and what might cause tension.

By comparing their guide to your own, you get a clear picture of your natural connection and where friction might arise. No more walking on eggshells, misreading intentions, or repeating the same arguments. Instead, you gain instant insight into how to live together, talk to each other, and support one another in a way that works for both sides.

Whether you want to strengthen bonds with a parent, sibling, or child, Personal User Guide helps you bring more empathy, clarity, and self-awareness into your family relationships.