Stop being misunderstood by family members

A personal user guide shows how you communicate, collaborate, and deal with stress, feedback, and change.

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Personal User Guide

Instant clarity on how you work together

Guide zooms into style differences, shared preferences and concrete conversation opportunities.

78%average match between your work styles
5 dimensionsfor each dimension you see overlap, distance and discussion points
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Overall similarity78%
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Team guide

Spot team friction at a glance

Team guides combine progress, friction and priorities so you know where coaching is needed right away.

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Assessments

Invite candidates to a short personality assessment

Send candidates a secure assessment link and see how their personality fits the team as soon as they finish.

1 linkCandidates start without an account or team access.
Live statusTrack who has been invited, started, or completed.
Candidate assessmentFor Growth team
Valid for 7 days
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After completionCandidate visible in team context

Use the results as a starting point for selection, onboarding, or a deeper conversation.

Transformations

Rewrite difficult messages in seconds

With transformations, you adapt text to the receiver's personality so your message lands better.

Make a message less intense for EmmaEmma is emotional.

Prompt

You keep missing agreements and it is frustrating.
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You keep missing agreements and it is frustrating.

Transformed

Can we align clear agreements so we both know what is expected and when?

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Input, output and history in one flow

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Personal User Guide

Original research and practical guides about personality, work and collaboration.

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Family life becomes a lot less tense and a lot more connected when you understand how your loved ones operate. With Personal User Guide, you can read someone’s personality guide as if it were their manual. You discover how they prefer to communicate, what they need to feel supported, what gives them energy, and what might cause tension.

By comparing their guide to your own, you get a clear picture of your natural connection and where friction might arise. No more walking on eggshells, misreading intentions, or repeating the same arguments. Instead, you gain instant insight into how to live together, talk to each other, and support one another in a way that works for both sides.

Whether you want to strengthen bonds with a parent, sibling, or child, Personal User Guide helps you bring more empathy, clarity, and self-awareness into your family relationships.